Showing posts with label Navy spouses who inspire me. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Navy spouses who inspire me. Show all posts

Thursday, November 10, 2011

Yokohama Quilt Show: One Block Wonder

A gargantuan quilt suspended from the ceiling

Today was opening day of this year's Yokohama Quilt Festival and we got to Minatomirai just after the doors opened. No way were we going to miss seeing Big Bird receive her prize for her "One Block Wonder". She was the only American quilter to get an award and one of the few non-Japanese prize winners, the others hailing from Taiwan.

Note that her sweater complements the quilt's colors.

A closer view of the quilt (above) might help explain its title. Big Bird pieced this quilt from a single length of fabric rather than using lots of different fabrics. She has a lot more self-restraint than someone else we all know, the person who can't walk out of a fabric store without at least a quarter meter of every fabric on offer.

Here she is twiddling her thumbs in the winner's circle a few minutes before the prizes were awarded. Note the pink sweater is the only item of clothing in the winner's circle that isn't black, dark blue, or grey. As if we wouldn't be able to spot her by her hair . . .

Our Japanese quilting friends helped celebrate the occasion

We are all so proud of Big Bird. Next week she's teaching interested Navy medicine spouses how to make a tote bag from four fat quarters of fabric. Not me, though. I am still working on the quilted purse Shinagawa-san taught us how to make last year.

Saturday, July 23, 2011

Mata-ne to Weather Explorer

Today Weather Explorer left Japan for her husband's new duty station in Tennessee.

She's been a willing and cheerful accomplice in most of my adventures and escapades for the past year and half, and my Rock of Gibralter -- make that Mount Fuji -- since the March 11 earthquake and tsunami. We've had some fun times.  To put it mildly.


Uraga Ferry
The past three weeks have been packed with farewell activities. The day after our first Charity Quilting Bee, Hisayo and Chigusa took us on a hike in Uraga, the hilly Yokosuka neighborhood where they live. We visited a shrine on the east side of a small bay and then rode a ferry to the sister shrine on the other side.

Hisayo bought us pretty little prayer pouches at the east shrine. At the west shrine we selected polished stones and inserted them in our pouches.

Prayer tablet at Kano Higashi (East)
Hisayo pointed out two symbols on a marble plinth at the entrance to the east shrine. The two symbols -- "Wishes Fulfilled" -- are also painted on the tablets visitors can purchase. We bought one of those tablets, wrote a prayer on the back, and hung it on a hook outside the shrine. If I have this right, our prayer will remain on that hill overlooking Tokyo Bay until the new year when all the prayers are burned in a special ceremony.

Friday, July 1, 2011

More Quilt Ideas Worth Borrowing

Big Bird belongs to a quilting guild based in Jacksonville, Florida. Two of her quilts are group efforts.


The white rectangles in the quilt shown above contain handwritten messages from guild members. Big Bird chose a flamingo-patterned border to further remind her of her Florida quilting pals.


After the guild members swapped floral blocks, they each created a quilt like the one shown above. Doesn't it remind you of looking through a window at a garden? It inspires me but I'm not yet sure whether I'm inspired to spend more time learning how to quilt or designing a garden. Just in case it's the former, I think I ought to mosey out to a fabric store and invest in a few more meters of flowered fabric.

"Fandango"

"Fandango" was made out of scraps of fabric left over from Big Bird's previous quilts. It reminds me of a bookcase from Dr. Seuss's perspective.

The post-it note Big Bird used to mark the magazine page showing a picture of "Fandango" is shaped like a molar.  Big Bird is married to a Navy dentist.  I have yet to see any cute post-it notes for the emergency medicine crowd.

Thursday, June 30, 2011

Miss Piggy Wants to Steal All These Quilts

Big Bird treated us to coffee and a show-and-tell before our quilting bee this week. She's made 25 quilts so far with two more in the works. At right, she's holding the first quilt she constructed.

Some of her quilts have been featured in quilting magazines; we're trying to talk her into submitting some of the others to the juries that choose quilts for exhibit at the Tokyo and Yokohama quilt shows.


"Water Lilies"

For the "Water Lilies" quilt she used fabric with a turtle pattern for the small blocks circling each lily pad.

"Asian Blocks"

The quilt above features large blocks of fabric with Asian themes like chrysanthemums, carp, and kabuki actors.

This is only the tip of the iceberg. I plan to share some more pictures of her work when I get home from the Machida shrine sale tomorrow.

Tuesday, April 5, 2011

The Diaspora

Tomorrow I'll be sorting through scores of cherry blossom pictures, trying to find the one that will capture the essence of a Tokyo spring. But tonight I'm thinking about all the temporarily displaced temporary single-parent families that left mainland Japan two or three weeks ago and are now wandering around the United States lugging two suitcases each and perhaps a pet carrier.  Two-thirds of our schoolchildren left Japan shortly after the March 11 earthquake; most of them are now adjusting to new schools and some are experiencing home-schooling for the first time.  My heart goes out to those kids, especially the adolescents.

Most of my friends left Japan at their own expense.  The wheels of bureaucracy did not move smoothly between the announcement of a possible evacuation and the execution of same.  We were told one thing and then another.  The vacillation was excruciating at first and that's when the first wave threw up their hands, made their own plane reservations, and left town.  The vacillation did not abate during the execution phase - military flights were cancelled at the last minute, suitcase weight limits changed hourly at times, and at one point we were notified that commercial flights were no longer an option followed 90 seconds later by a message that that decision had been rescinded.  That's when things started striking us as hysterically funny, emphasis on hysterical, and a few more of my friends opted to make their own plane reservations.

Now they are wondering when they can come back.  They miss their beds, they miss their kitchens, they miss their friends.  Everything is up in the air.  The wheels of bureaucracy could use a shot of WD-40.  Input from the displaced families would be a novel approach. 

Monday, March 21, 2011

One Way We Got to Where We Are, Wherever That Might Be

The truth will set you free, but first it will make you miserable. ~Attributed to James A. Garfield

It is error alone which needs the support of government. Truth can stand by itself. ~Thomas Jefferson, Notes on Virginia

My phone rang late yesterday afternoon.  A friend was calling around for volunteers to make and deliver finger food to the young Navy guys who've been working almost non-stop for the past 24 hours to book "voluntary evacuees" on airplanes.  I was the third person she called, but the first to answer the ringing telephone.  Whoever asked her to muster volunteer cooks -- and I'm pretty sure I know who instigated the errand of mercy -- had specifically asked that this request not be circulated via facebook.  What a shame.

I pondered that "Please do not post this on facebook" directive while frying up the lumpia I found tucked in the back of my freezer.  This was my first stab at making lumpia.  It took longer than I expected to achieve a golden brown color approximating the package illustration.  I had a lot of time to think.  If you're looking for a human interest post, maybe you should stop now and check back later today.

Authority changes hands fairly regularly in the Navy.  While it might not have been true yesterday and it may no longer be true tomorrow, right now the people who happen to hold positions of authority here seem fearful of what they refer to as "social media" and I know as "facebook".  These leaders have been quick to label facebook as "evil" and blamed facebook users for inciting widespread panic by sharing misinformation; they have been slow to see the potential benefits of using facebook to transmit accurate information.

What was the sticking point?  Did they simply have no "official information" to share?  Were they just unwilling to acknowledge the limits of their authority? 

In the absence of "official information", they circulated "worst-case scenarios" through the Ombudsmen.  An Ombudsman is a Navy spouse who volunteers to serve as the primary communication conduit between a Commanding Officer and the families of sailors who serve under that Commanding Officer.  This is not a paid position.  There are many ombudsmen here because there are many commands.  Each ship has its own Commanding Officer and there are also many shore commands, like the hospital, ship repair, legal services, and facilities.  Those are called tenant commands.  The base command, called CFAY, is the landlord and has its own ombudsman.

I have the utmost respect for Ombudsmen and am amazed that people, primarily women, actually volunteer for this mostly thankless job.  "Mostly" here is in deference to the dinner held in their honor every September and the fried chicken available in the back of the room during their obligatory 10-hour training session.  Like many current and former CO spouses, I am a graduate of Ombudsman Basic Training and I've provided some version of that fried chicken dinner for subsequent classes.

In the aftermath of the earthquake/tsunami, the base leaders have met with the Ombudsmen at least daily and often more frequently.  Imagine these women trying to find babysitters on short notice while their phones are ringing off the hook and their e-mail boxes are overflowing with questions from 23-year old semi-hysterical mothers of infants and toddlers.  Then they dash off to the meeting, ask a lot of "what-if" questions, get a lot of "perhaps this, perhaps that" non-answers but nothing in writing, and are sent home to write up a summary of the discussion and distribute it to the families within their command.

If there are twenty Ombudsmen, there are twenty slightly different summaries.  This stands to reason.  The summaries are e-mailed to the families.  Sally in apt. 1 receives the USS George Washington summary, Mary in apt. 2 gets the summary from the hospital ombudsman, and Jill in apt. 3 sees the summary from the submarine ombudsman.  Do you see where I'm going with this? 

In the absence of "official information", neighbors and friends share those slightly different summaries.  People start getting confused.  They want clarification and the quickest way they know how to get it is to log into facebook.  Quick is important because they have two or three children underfoot.  They have two or three children underfoot because the school principals understood those "perhaps this, perhaps that" non-answers as Gospel Truth and cancelled school.

At a hastily-convened "town hall" meeting last Monday, the base commander blamed the Ombudsmen for spreading misinformation.  I had already left the meeting at that point (to help paint the stage set for the now-postponed production of Steel Magnolias), but I understand he was taken to task by one of the more senior Ombudsmen.  Bravo for her.

This all might have been averted if only someone on the CFAY staff, someone who actually gets paid to communicate say, had been tasked with preparing a written summary of each meeting that could have been distributed as a unified message by all the Ombudsmen via e-mail and facebook.

I, for one, would have appreciated seeing a refreshingly honest introductory statement, along the lines of:  Please remain calm.  We are doing everything in our power to assure your safety and well-being.  Unfortunately, and contrary to popular opinion, no Naval officer assigned to Japan has been delegated the budgetary authority to pay for the departure and subsequent return of those of you who no longer wish to be in Japan.  Please do not be overly concerned that our own spouses have departed the base.  They do not know anything that you don't know.  We have simply asked them to leave in order that we can focus on your needs without the distraction of our own families.      

The person I thought was responsible for instigating the errand of mercy posted something interesting on facebook late last night. She thanked two ladies for delivering cookies to those hardworking young sailors. I guess she didn't know about the lumpia. I guess "Please do not post this on facebook" did not apply to herself.

I am darn certain those kids would have received more food had I elected to disregard her directive.

Excuse me while I figure out how you "un-friend" someone.

Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Our (Second to) Last Party

June 4.  My goddaughter's birthday.  This was going to be the last party I would ever throw for people who aren't related to me.

Then the four Japanese medical admirals and Mike's fleet counterpart deposited five enormous bottles of sake and a gallon of 13-year old Jameson's Irish whiskey on my kitchen counter enroute to shaking hands with our guest of honor, the U.S. Navy Surgeon General.  Unless I can figure out a way to smuggle all this alcohol back to the U.S., it seems we'll be hosting another big bash sometime in the coming year.

Although VADM Robinson was the nominal guest of honor, the true celebrities were the spouses of Navy doctors and nurses currently serving in Afghanistan.  Women like Cheryl and Sue, pictured here with the Surgeon General, inspire me to be (a little) less self-centered.  The Navy in general and Navy Medicine in particular could do a much better job of supporting IA families.  Feel free to flag that previous sentence as an understatement.


Xan was another special guest.  When she skipped through the door carrying that bowl of mochi, my steely opposition to potlucks became a puddle of molten pig iron.  Never have I seen a blonde-haired seven-year old wield a pair of chopsticks with the poise and dexterity Xan showed as she transferred those mochi to a serving plate.  I was so mesmerized I almost forgot to schlep the desserts from the kitchen to the dining room.

Clement the Professional Chef brought a mountain of homemade rolls and a tray of flower-shaped butter pats. There are limits to my stubborness.  Holding Clement to the No Potlucks Rule would be idiotic.

Not pictured, alas, are Jen and Cormac O'Connor.  Had Jen not taken it upon herself to arrive early, the cherry tomatoes would still be piled in one refrigerator and the feta-and-basil stuffing in the other.  Had Cormac not strolled in waving his official invitation right behind Party Crasher #1, I might not have wet my pants laughing.  And had they both not insisted on cleaning up after the party, I would have been up to my elbows in dishwater when James, Emily, and Aunt Suzi arrived for Matt's graduation two days later.

Monday, May 3, 2010

A Brief Commercial Message


While I'm scrambling around getting ready for the Oakleaf Club's Golden Week Bunko Party tonight -- which is not a theme party no matter how much it sounds like one - you might want to check out Betty's Travel Blog.

Betty (29) and Lulu (25) are the two youngest Knitwits. They met each other at one of our knitting sessions last fall, formed one of the fastest friendships in the history of Navy Wifedom, and last week set off on a two-month backpacking trek that will take them to countries I'm having a hard time locating on a map.

Lulu has a nursing degree and Betty's career history includes a stint managing a go-go bar in Virginia. They are an interesting pair, to say the least, and I am going to miss their companionship, wit, and knitting advice until they return to Starbucks on a Thursday night in late June or early July.

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Cherry Blossom Viewing Party #2: Reconstructing Mt. Minobu

Give Party Animal a little credit. Sure, maybe she failed to slap that memory card back inside her camera after hot sake night at Tadodai House, but she did make a herculean effort to drag herself out of bed at 4:27 am the next morning and then scurry over to the bus departure point to meet Sue. And even though those Morale, Welfare & Recreation pranksters switched the bus departure point, she managed to locate and leap on the correct vehicle just seconds before the bus chugged off on a 17-hour trek to Mt Minobu in Yamanashi Prefecture.

The camera fiasco worked to your advantage, dear reader, as Sue is an amazing photographer with equipment even the Ancient Mariner could envy. She generously stuck a DVD of Minobusan pictures inside my front door yesterday by which point I had sobered up sufficiently from the hot sake fiasco to attempt this reconstruction of the Minobusan odyssey.

Sue was not my only friend on the tour bus. Erin, whose husband is on the Seventh Fleet staff and currently sailing the ocean blue with the Ancient Mariner, brought her three boys: studious Ethan, mischievous Matthew, and - my special friend - the irrepressible Seth who was plotting his disappearing act when this picture was snapped. You might recall that Sue's husband, an emergency physician, was sent to Afghanistan in January and will not be returning to Japan until October. What an honor it was for me to spend a Sunday in the presence of these inspiring young Navy wives.

Yamanashi Prefecture, about two and a half hours west of Tokyo, is the home of Mt. Fuji and the eastern foothills of the Minami Alps. Our driver negotiated the bus over hill, over dale, and around multiple hairpin turns before depositing us within walking distance of Kuon-ji Temple, halfway up the sacred Mt. Minobu. Before visiting the temple, we took a tram ropeway (see speck, below) to the top of the mountain to savor the splendid view of Mt. Fuji and the Pacific Ocean. There were several temple buildings, including the inner shrine (Okunoin Shishinkaku), and lots of statues on the mountaintop.




Why does this statue look so familiar? Gadzooks, it's Nichiren, the radical Thirteenth Century Buddhist saint who died in that place in Ikegami where the mysterious old lady kidnapped the Explorers just a few weeks ago. Kuon-ji, as it turns out, is the head temple of the sect Nichiren established, Nichiren Shu, and the place where he asked to be buried. I think I might prefer to be stalked by Van Morrison's moon shadow than the ghost of a radical Buddhist monk.

This is a statue of Shakyamuni Buddha, regarded by Nichiren as the Eternal Buddha as preached in the 16th chapter of the Lotus Sutra. Which, I presume, explains the lotus on which this Buddha is perched.

After inhaling some incense to purify our thoughts (note lotus blossom beneath incense burner), we rode the tram back down to the main temple where we flagged down a passing monk who was surprisingly amenable to having his picture taken.



The temple attracts over 1.5 million visitors yearly. Since we approached the magnificent temple grounds from above and behind, we did not, (sarcastic) alas, have the opportunity to climb the Bodaitei, 287 stone steps leading up to Kuon-ji from the temple town below.

This weeping cherry tree is over 100 years old, hence those timbers supporting its limbs.


We spent an hour or so wandering around the temple grounds, admiring the splendid buildings and lovely cherry blossoms. Since my buddy Seth decided to wander further afield than the rest of us, our fellow pilgrims were treated to the sight and sounds of a six-foot tall frantic American mother racing back and forth across the plaza, which is about the length of three football fields. This is the point when I checked out those 287 stone steps, saw they were as steep as a Grand Canyon cliff, and prayed (to St. Nichiren, of course) that Seth had disappeared in the opposite direction so I wouldn't have to rappel down to fetch him. My prayers were answered.

Our next stop was the temple town for shopping, which I eschewed, and festival food, which I embraced. On offer was sakura (cherry) ice cream, bananas and strawberries dipped in chocolate (above), and footlong hot dogs (below) plus a bunch of other stuff that did not stand a chance of passing between my lips although I was more than happy to egg on a young sailor sucking up his courage to taste something exotic before he moves back to the States in a few weeks.

A bun would have been a welcome addition in terms of soaking up residual hot sake.


Leaving Mt. Minobu behind, our bus took us to Katsunuma where we toured the Shirayuri Winery and sampled L'Orient wines. One tiny sip of cherry blossom wine later, I was elbow to elbow with Ethan, Matthew, and Seth at the grape juice station, comparing the virtues of white grape juice vice purple.
If you click on that L'Orient wine link above, you can see more pictures of the winery and its products. Try pressing the buttons on the left side of the page if you are feeling adventurous.

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